“I stand in solidarity with bottoms now more than ever. We can feel your pain /JgDP6gmIChĪndy admitted that the experience of almost bottoming had changed him, hopefully for the better. Now you know all the work that goes with being a bttm and how frustrating it is when tops don’t come through. Many responses came from those who felt Andy’s bottoming pain, having been left with the same empty feeling of disappointment. “I’m pretty sure that means he murdered his roommate, but who knows!”Īlmost 250,000 people have watched Andy’s video – tops, bottoms and pseudo-bottoms alike. “An hour after we were supposed to meet (and after my stomach was full of tacos and guac) he texted me to say he had an ‘unforeseen roommate dispute and am no longer available’. He said that his would-be top stopped responding as soon as he’d arranged the hook-up.